Opening the conversation on sexual health

22 Oct 2025

CRANAplus Member and Fellow, Lyn Byers, writes about the importance of sexual health education in the remote setting, and shares her tips for broaching the subject.

Lyn Byers.

Over 50% of the Abo­rig­i­nal and Tor­res Strait Islander pop­u­la­tion across Aus­tralia is young – less than 25 years old. There are high rates of sex­u­al­ly trans­mit­ted infec­tions (STIs) in young peo­ple right across Aus­tralia, but in very remote Aus­tralia there is lim­it­ed access to meth­ods of birth con­trol or spe­cial­ist ser­vices, and lim­it­ed knowl­edge of sex­u­al health. Remote com­mu­ni­ties rely on remote area nurs­es (RANs) for accu­rate infor­ma­tion, screen­ing and treatment. 

The most com­mon STIs, chlamy­dia, gon­or­rhoea, tri­chomonas and syphilis, have few or no symp­toms. All STIs in preg­nant women can have seri­ous con­se­quences both for the woman and her baby. 

Syphilis has sig­nif­i­cant­ly increased in Aus­tralia over the last ten years, now declared a Com­mu­ni­ca­ble Dis­ease Inci­dent of Nation­al Sig­nif­i­cance by Australia’s Chief Med­ical Offi­cer, and women of repro­duc­tive age are espe­cial­ly at risk. 

Explor­ing sex­u­al health mat­ters with young peo­ple pro­vides them with accu­rate infor­ma­tion about how their body works and how they can care for them­selves. Ear­ly detec­tion of STIs can pre­vent long-term health com­pli­ca­tions, such as infer­til­i­ty or chron­ic infections. 

Young peo­ple need to learn about puber­ty and the nor­mal changes occur­ring in their bod­ies, too.

Work­ing in very remote com­mu­ni­ties where Eng­lish is not the first lan­guage for many peo­ple, RANs become adept at sketch­ing anato­my dia­grams to illus­trate a con­cept and sourc­ing pic­to­r­i­al resources. 

Par­tic­i­pat­ing in a group health ses­sion organ­ised by the local youth work­ers, one RAN found that the grand­moth­ers, moth­ers and girls were all fas­ci­nat­ed by the men­stru­a­tion cycle sto­ry. Nor­mal­is­ing the sto­ry and offer­ing prac­ti­cal tips on how to man­age men­stru­al bleed­ing gave the women more con­trol over their bod­ies. Under­stand­ing fer­til­i­ty helped the women to under­stand con­cepts such as con­tra­cep­tion, STIs and cer­vi­cal screen­ing – often all lumped togeth­er under women’s health’ in remote clin­ic settings. 

Issues such as sex­u­al dys­func­tion, trau­ma, or abuse may not be revealed unless the RAN cre­ates a safe and sup­port­ive envi­ron­ment. Address­ing these con­cerns can improve qual­i­ty of life, enhance rela­tion­ships, and pre­vent fur­ther psy­cho­log­i­cal distress. 

A young man with a seri­ous men­tal ill­ness declined to take his anti-psy­chot­ic med­ica­tions. The RAN in his com­mu­ni­ty was atten­tive to his con­cerns and found the patient attrib­uted his impo­tence to the anti-psy­chot­ic med­ica­tion he was pre­scribed – a valid con­cern. He and his part­ner want­ed to have chil­dren. Work­ing with the psy­chi­a­try team, a suit­able alter­na­tive med­ica­tion was found. The young man remained men­tal­ly well, and he and his part­ner had a child a year later. 

Being skilled in this area of health is essen­tial to reduc­ing health dis­par­i­ties. It helps to ensure that all patients, regard­less of gen­der, ori­en­ta­tion, or back­ground, receive the same lev­el of atten­tive and non-judg­men­tal care. It fos­ters trust between patients and RANs, pro­mot­ing bet­ter health out­comes and patient satisfaction.

Pho­to: Lev – stock​.adobe​.com

Tips for dis­cussing sex­u­al health

  • Con­sid­er ter­mi­nol­o­gy. Think about the many rela­tion­ships peo­ple have and what it might mean to the patient if asked, Are you in a sta­ble rela­tion­ship?” A sta­ble rela­tion­ship could be two part­ners, three part­ners, an occa­sion­al part­ner, pla­ton­ic or some oth­er vari­a­tion. Anoth­er exam­ple is ask­ing if some­one is mar­ried. They could answer yes and might be mar­ried but haven’t seen their mar­ried part­ner for many years, or be liv­ing with some­one dif­fer­ent. Using the words, Are you sex­u­al­ly active?” means the RAN will need to explore what sex­u­al­ly active means to the patient; does it include pen­e­tra­tive vagi­nal, oral, anal sex, or kiss­ing and cuddling? 
  • Com­mu­ni­ca­tion tech­niques. Use com­mu­ni­ca­tion tech­niques such as open and closed ques­tions, silence, clar­i­fy­ing, sum­maris­ing, and reflect­ing. Ques­tions that don’t have under­ly­ing assump­tions, are pre­cise and use­ful, and are under­stood by both patient and clin­i­cian, are the aim.
  • Side­ways talk. Explain the issue with­out relat­ing it to the per­son, then bring the per­son in. For exam­ple, ask, Have you seen the ads on TV for STI test­ing? Have you thought about hav­ing an STI test?” 
  • Nor­malise. For exam­ple, say, We offer this to everyone.” 
  • Hook. For exam­ple, say, Have you heard about the HPV vac­cine?” Alter­na­tive­ly, say, Do you have one of those rods (Implanon con­tra­cep­tive) in your arm?”
  • Incor­po­rate. For exam­ple, say, While we are talk­ing about cer­vi­cal screen­ing, can I also talk about your sex­u­al health?” 
  • Warn­ing shot. For exam­ple, state, I am going to ask you some per­son­al ques­tions, these are all for a rea­son, and they are all con­fi­den­tial. Is that ok with you?” 
  • Impor­tant­ly, nev­er apol­o­gise for ask­ing ques­tions relat­ed to sex­u­al health. Under­stand­ing a patient’s sex­u­al health enables RANs to iden­ti­fy poten­tial risks, pre­vent dis­eases, and offer more per­son­alised treat­ment options.

For fur­ther learn­ing, check out organ­i­sa­tions like ASHM, SHINE SA, True, Sex­u­al Health Quar­ters, Fam­i­ly Plan­ning Wel­fare Asso­ci­a­tion of NT Inc or Remote Pri­ma­ry Health Care Man­u­als that con­tain chap­ters cov­er­ing sex­u­al and repro­duc­tive health mat­ters tai­lored to the remote context.